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How To
Get My Ex Boyfriend Back Without Begging?
Often times, it is easy to to let ourselves get too comfortable in a
relationship, that we stop trying to look good or to inject new life
into it. Yeah, we get away with stale manicure and not shaving once in
a while, but what happens when a relationship fails? All of a sudden,
you are out of touch with your 'girliness' and you forgot how was it
like to be chased, and how good is it to be desired. Whether you are
still thinking "how to get my boyfriend back" or determined to reclaim
singlehood with a bang, here's what you need to do to up your chances.
Ask yourself this - what if you are a guy...what would it take for a
woman to make you want her so bad that you'll do anything to get her?
Better still, what if you are your ex? What do your ex value most in a
woman that you can improve on? Most women make the mistake of calling
their exes incessantly and cry their heart out to the borderline of
begging their exes to come back. Right now you may just be thinking
"how to get my ex boyfriend back without begging". You only have to
remember two things. Well, instead of TELLING your ex how much you want
him, keep him guessing and SHOW him just how fabulous you are so he
will want to keep you for life.
While you may find many articles on this site on the techniques (to get
your ex boyfriend back), this particular article focuses on YOU, making
you the ultimate thing that your ex (or anyone else for that matter)
want and desire. To do this, you give yourself a makeover. This will
mean new clothes, new hairstyle and shopping! Is that a great reason to
feel better or what. To help you layout your makeover plan, here are
some things that you should avoid and some of the things that make you
irresistible to men.
Go Easy On The
Makeup
Guys generally hate makeup. They do not see makeup as fun and creative
like women, and they just cannot figure out how women are willing to go
through all the hassle to look caked. Women with constant overload of
makeup will instantly give the impression of vain (you're entitled to
this no don't worries here), insecure and high maintenance. Just think
about it, your lip gloss isn't exactly inviting when your guy decides
to give you an impulsive kiss.
However, some makeup will do wonders to enhance your features. A dab of
concealer to freshen up tired eyes, some blush to bring out the
cheekbones and a sweep of mascara to open up your peepers are all you
need to appear effortlessly gorgeous.
Stop Being
Overly Giggly and Excited
Let's face it, over excitement can be dumb, if not fake. The same goes
for being overly gleeful and overeacting over the slightest things. So
some guys are into dumb girls (someone they can protect), but most
can't stand it. To get your ex back, you have to elude him. Use your
giggles sparringly and wisely only when flirting for the 'cuteness'
factor. More than that and it's just dumb.
Pay Attention
And Compliment Him
Guys do not want to admit this, but they do have body image and
apperance issues. The bad thing is, unlike girls, the boys have no one
to complaint to, so they have no choice but to suffer in silence.
Surprised? Well, guys are human too. Paying compliments to guys make
them feel comfortable being with you, and that increases your chance of
getting close to them.
Another secret about guys is they have a thing about pride. To get back
with your ex or to get any guy, take care of his pride, treat him like
The Man and he won't be able to resist you.
Don't Be A Diva
Be nice. Some girls can be too 'girly' with their gossiping and
constant giggling, and this will repel the guys, even when the girls
are hot and especially when they are hot. Also, some girls get
irritated easily like waiting for the guy to pick them up, being put on
hold on the phone, made to carry their own shopping bag and so on while
it is perfectly okay for them to do the same to the guys. Being too
'sophisticated' and constantly talking bad about others gives the
impression that you are bitchy and hard to get along with.
No one wants to be get close to you if they are constantly subjected to
your judgement and this cause the guys to be self conscious around you,
preventing further relationship from taking place. This will certainly
ruin your chances to get your ex boyfriend back.
Show Off Your
Body...The Smart Way
Dress classy, not cheap. It's okay to bare a bit of flesh but be
careful not to go overboard. Showing some cleavage is fine if other
parts of your body is covered. For example, pairing that low cut top
with a mini skirt makes you look skimpy. Short pants and knitted long
sleeves top? Chic. Baggy pants with a hint of midrift? Sexy. However,
wearing an oversized T-shirt with it and guys will take you as a
brother, instead 'prospect'.
How you dress is a teaser for him on what's in store. You don't want to
give it away as you want to reveal just enough to work his imagination.
Strike a balance, and you will have guys fighting for you in no time.
By then you will be wondering if you still want to get your ex
boyfriend back :)
Self confidence
And Self Loving
If self confidence is your problem, here's the good news : fake one,
while you develop an innate sense of confidence. You can tell if a
person is confident just by looking at him or her. Is she standing
tall, does her eyes look into yours when she is speaking to you? Does
she smile and laugh easily, or nervously (fake)? Self confidence comes
from loving yourself, and accepting yourself for who you are. Stop
relying on other people's opinion to judge yourself, at the end of the
day, your opinion is the only ones that matters.
Guys usually hate it when you ask them if the yellow dress is making
you look fat. Why? Because no matter what their answer may be, you will
not be satisfied. If they said no, you would think that they are just
trying to make you feel better. If they say yes, you would take it at
face value and spend longer time preparing to go out. When you have the
confidence, you can get away from most fashion mistakes. Say something
like, "Yeah, it'll make me chubbier, but what the heck, yellow surely
make my day!" Your guy will be impressed at your confidence and ability
to poke fun at yourself and this is incredibly sexy to them.
Don't Forget
That Perfume
How many times do you hear guys saying how much they like to smell
their girlfriends' hair? Scents have strange way of stirring up
memories and bringing back forgotten feelings. What better way to
remind him your goodness without actually saying it?
Be Yourself
Everyone of us is unique and it is our personalities more than anything
that draw people to us. This ia an important element to get your ex
boyfriend back. If you have an attitude, let it show. See, the whole
point of this makeover is not to be someone you are not. It is to be
yourself, only better.
Now that you are naturally gorgeous, not artifically dolled up, smart,
confident, sexy and nice to be with, your ex will be begging you to
take him back. And even if things don't work out between the two of
you, you'll be too preoccupied to even think about how to get your ex
boyfriend back because your have irresistably attracted other guys to
sweep you off your feet.
Want more ways
to increase your chances of getting your ex boyfriend back? We
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