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8
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Tips #1 : Let It
Cool
Trying every way to get through to your ex when he or she is clearly
avoiding you is the No. 1 mistake that most people commit. Not only it
is bad for the relationship (if you can still call it that), it's a
self esteem killer. Trying relentlessly to communicate with (pouring
your heart out, begging and nagging) your ex will only irritate
him/her, making it much harder to get your ex back.
Ask yourself, do you want to be regarded as, and treated like a
nuisance? Do you really want to lay out your feelings at the wrong time
to be trampled over? You may be tempted to go all out to get your ex
back, even if it mean letting go of your pride and doing as much
as you
can. However, it's not how much you do that matters, it's HOW you do it
and WHEN you do it.
For now, the best things that you can do is to do nothing. Stop
calling, texting, emailing or running into your ex. If you need someone
to talk to, call a friend, or write your feelings down. This will save
you lots of dignity, and you're going to need them later in tips no. 8.
Tips #2: Don't
Secretly Check On Your Ex
If you can't do it openly, there's always a way to keep an eye on your
ex without being seen, right? Wrong! Understandably, you may feel the
need to know if your ex is having a hard time getting over you or is
out partying with friends or if he / she is seeing someone new.
Stalking someone is addictive, especially if you are stalking an ex,
because of the temporary 'relief' it offers in times of a break up.
If you have been purposely passing by your ex's house, prying on his /
her email, secretly following your ex and what not, it is only a matter
of time before you are going to be found out. It ain't going to be
pretty, and you can forget about ever getting back with your ex if that
happens. Really, you don't have to stoop so low to get your ex back.
Tips #3 : Stop
Wallowing In Sorrow
There's a difference between taking some time to get over the break up
and letting yourself grief indefinitely and neglecting your everyday
life in the mean time. Often time, a break up can result in loss of
job, failed examination or social isolation.
Indulging in depression is self-destructing, and that won't win your ex
back. The best way to take your mind off missing your ex is to
concentrate on loving yourself more. You can't possibly expect your ex
to love you back if you don't love yourself. Make sense?
Have you always wanted to go rock climbing but your ex is afraid of
height? Or have you stop wearing red even if you look terrific in it
just because your ex hate it? Enjoy the privilege of being single while
you can, and you will have no time to feel sad. Perhaps you'll realize
during this time that you don't want to get your ex back at all,
and start looking for the things that matters most to you.
Tips #4 : Don't
Turn Into A Hermit
Sometimes we wish that we can crawl into our shell and shut away all
the pain and troubles we experience. A break up can turn you into a
social hermit if you let it. First, you will be having no mood to
meet new people and secondly, you subconsciously drive people away with
your negative vibes. And that includes your ex, or any potential new
love. Even if you are
unsuccessful in your bid to get
your ex back, a new love is not a
bad idea, right?
Tips #5 : Give
Yourself An Upgrade
Right now, you should be thinking that it is your ex's lost in dumping
you, not the other way round. With that in mind, you want to upgrade
your value in the eyes of your ex. Having more self confidence,
laughing more or going on dates after your break up are stark reminders
for your ex of something he / she missed.
Tips #6 : Keep
Casual Contact
When the time is right, keeping light contact with your ex can stir up
his / her memory with you. Just steer clear of desperation and do not
open up your heart to your ex just yet. If it hurts you to communicate
with your ex, use more indirect methods such as text messages or
internet chat. Keep it friendly and casual.
When this and tips no. 5 is done correctly, your ex will have a sudden
realization that he / she has really lost you forever because you seem
to have moved on and loving someone else other than them. Now you see
that to get your ex back,
you need to have a good plan.
Tips #7 :
Transform Your Look
Make your ex regret "The Dumping" by giving yourself a complete
makeover. You don't have to be someone you're not, just spend some time
(and money) on new clothes, style, make up and really hitting the gym
to be a more gorgeous version of yourself.
After years of dating, some of us are too lazy to groom ourselves. Your
ex is probably used to seeing you in your oversized T-shirt and baggy
pants. The best part is, you new look will directly inject new life and
confidence into you and this will attract new people into your life.
Your ex will also notice the change in you, causing him / her to be
intrigued or even regret dumping you. This is the key to get your ex back.
Tips #8 : Let
Your Ex Come To You
You have done what needs to be done, and you're now attracting people
to you with your positive vibes. Guess what? Now is the time to play it
cool. Do not melt at the slightest hint that your ex wants you back.
Playing hard to get at this point is crucial so that your ex will
treasure you even more when the two of you finally get back together.
You can't possibly play hard to get now if you have given up your pride
way earlier in the game, can you? Now this is a plan you can stick to
to win your ex back. Beats begging anytime.
Is that all to it? Not exactly. While this is a great outline of a love reconcillation plan, there
are little details that you need to find out to react to "what if"
situations when they happen. What if your ex is seeing someone new?
What if your ex is acting totally out of expectation to your advances?
You get the point.
If you want to put the odds of getting back with your ex in your favor,
then check out the complete ex back 'bible' by T.W. Jackson, the
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Here's to your success in winning
your ex back!
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